In a Nutshell
Stretch! That word
best summarizes my advice to people who want to become more flexible and
respond to change more positively. What I mean is that the more we
stretch ourselves and take on new challenges that require new skills, the
more flexible we'll become. Certainly there are other habits and
attitudes that we can develop to assist us in our efforts to become more
flexible. I also recommend learning how to overcome irrational fears
of change, boosting self-confidence, becoming proactive and involved during
change processes, setting new goals, and anticipating change. But
stretching is crucial.
In This Issue
Why We Don't Like Change
Being flexible in the face
of change can be very difficult; we get committed to our plans, we want
to be perceived as consistent and uncertainty bothers us. So, sometimes
we're too rigid during times of transition.
We
like our current plans. One of the reasons we aren't
always as flexible as we could be is that we like the plans we've already
made and don't want to change them. We get committed to our goals
and plans, and can become very focused on them. Sometimes we visualize
ourselves realizing those goals, and imagine how satisfying that will be.
In many ways, this commitment to goals is beneficial. It helps us
stay productive in the midst of distractions. However, when changes
occur that hurt our chances of realizing our goals, we're predisposed to
disliking them. Change may mean that we'll have to do more work than
what we had planned, get retrained, lose relationships, have to develop
new relationships, lose status, or get fewer or less attractive rewards.
Losing something is a rational reason to dislike change. But, what's
interesting is that we often dislike change even when it isn't causing
us to lose more than we'll gain.
We
distrust flighty people. Irrespective of whether a
change will result in a net gain or loss for us, we dislike change partly
because we like people who are consistent. I want to be known as
someone who sticks to his commitments. When I tell you that I'm going
to do something, I want you to believe that I'll follow through and do
it. You'll trust and respect me more if I stick to my commitments,
right? So, it's not just that I like my current plans for their own
sake--I also resist change because I want you to see me as consistent.
This kind of commitment can cause me to continue a course of action despite
objective evidence that change is justified.
We're
risk averse, and we fear the unknown. Have you ever
known kids who have to sleep with the lights on in their bedroom at night
because they're afraid of monsters under the bed? There aren't any
monsters in their bedrooms, but with the lights off the kids can't verify
that. They fear the unknown. Adults are also bothered by uncertainty
and risk. Uncertainty often accompanies change. We can't always
know whether a change will result in a gain or loss for us. Sometimes
trying to convince adults that a particular change will benefit them looks
a lot like a parent trying to convince a child that there's no monster
under the bed--it's very difficult to persuade them. Yet most of
us realize that an unwillingness to flexibly respond to change would be
very costly for us in our careers.
Expect
Less Stability and More Change in Your Career
Although personal flexibility
can be difficult, it will probably be a major determinant of how much we'll
achieve in our careers. By most indications, the rate of change that
we face in the various facets of our careers is continually increasing.
Jobs, organizational structures and industries were much more stable decades
ago than they are now. The environment in which businesses now operate
is much more turbulent than it used to be. Factors such as increasing
international competition and advances in technology are forcing organizations
to change in order to adapt and survive. Consequently, members of
those organizations are regularly being asked to learn new work methods
and being assigned new duties to perform. It's becoming more difficult
to settle into a "comfort zone" in one's work situation.
Being an effective manager
in the new millennium, or more broadly having a successful career, will
require the ability to accept change. I don't mean to imply that
all change is inherently good. But, the habit of resisting any change
simply because it gets us out of our comfort zones is a habit that will
impede career success. Developing the personal flexibility to cope
with change can promote personal success and one's effectiveness as a leader.
Developing Personal
Flexibility
I recommend several strategies
for becoming more receptive to change; overcoming irrational fears, boosting
self-confidence, getting involved in change processes, setting new goals,
anticipating change and stretching yourself through new challenges.
Overcome
irrational fears. When encountering change in the
workplace, many people automatically fear that the change will not benefit
them, even without any concrete reason for that fear. We're probably
all guilty of doing that to a certain degree. Each of us has a certain
amount of fear of the unknown. However, this problem is particularly
pronounced in people with the personality traits of low tolerance of
ambiguity and high neuroticism. Such people find ambiguous
situations stressful and psychologically uncomfortable. They're inclined
to feel anxious and assume the worst when change occurs. For these
people, and any of us struggling with anxieties associated with a particular
change, overcoming irrational fears might help us become more receptive
to change.
Extensive research has shown
that one of the best ways to overcome irrational fears is through positive
"self-talk." Albert Ellis theorized that our worries and fears are
the consequence of the interaction of our actual experiences with our beliefs.
He argued that neuroticism is the result of a pattern of irrational beliefs
that "catastrophize" or "horribilize" the events that a person experiences
or anticipates. The fears of highly neurotic people have more to
do with their irrational beliefs than with actual circumstances.
The research of Ellis and others has found that through self-talk, individuals
can change their beliefs and thereby manage their emotional reactions to
events. I strongly recommend and have successfully used these techniques.
I have listed three books below that I recommend to anyone interested in
learning to use self-talk to become more optimistic and develop a more
positive outlook on change.
Boost
your self-confidence. One of the major reasons why
people fear change is their worry that they won't be able to cope with
the change; hence, boosting self-confidence can mitigate fears of change.
One of the most effective ways to boost self-confidence is through mental
rehearsal. A mental rehearsal technique, presented in Mastering
Self-Leadership by Charles Manz and Christopher Neck, was outlined
in an earlier LeaderLetter.
Get
involved in the change process. A simpler way to enhance
one's receptiveness to change is developing the habit of proactively getting
involved in change processes. To do this, one only needs to recognize
the feelings of trepidation during change and respond by taking action.
On the most basic level, asking questions and finding out as much as possible
about a change will alleviate irrational fears. Moreover, replacing
ambiguity with information helps people who are particularly uncomfortable
with ambiguity.
In many cases, it's possible
to participate in a change process. Being involved in a change process
is far more empowering than resisting it or sitting idly by and just reacting
to it. Participating in a change process allows you to have firsthand
information about it and possibly influence the process in a way that benefits
you.
Set
new goals. Goal setting can also be an effective way
to deal with change and uncertainty. As I mentioned above, goal setting
helps us get focused and be productive. During times of worry and
uncertainty, setting a short-term goal that's compatible with the change
we're dealing with helps shift our attention away from our worries and
onto that goal. People often say that they deal with times of transition
(termination, reassignment, etc.) by "taking it day by day." Setting
goals for what we want to accomplish by the end of the day, or making a
"to do" list can get us focused on manageable pieces of the change.
If we focus on all the possible implications of a significant change, we
can feel overwhelmed and spend too much time fretting. Focusing on
the big picture can cause inertia, but focusing on one piece can facilitate
action. In addition, by setting and achieving short-term goals, we
can build our self-confidence by developing a sense of accomplishment and
progress.
Anticipate
change. Change is easier to handle when you aren't
surprised by it. Monitor trends that pertain to your job and your
employer. That information is available from newspapers, trade publications,
professional associations, company newsletters, etc.
Stretch
yourself. The people
who I see having the most trouble coping with change are those who have
settled into a comfortable routine and haven't changed much. I think
that's partly due to the fact that adapting and developing professionally
can be a habit, and not stretching yourself creates rigidity.
With a good understanding
of which trends are likely to affect you, you can innovate or develop new
skills in a way that puts you "ahead of the curve." Make some changes
even before you have to in order to challenge yourself. The more
practice you get in coping with ambiguity, the more flexible you'll become.
If you do nothing else,
I recommend that you regularly stretch yourself. The other strategies
listed above will increase your likelihood of successfully dealing with
a change. But a person who keeps challenging his- or herself is going
to find strategies for coping with change anyway.
In Summary ...
We can all expect less stability
and more change in our careers. To survive and thrive, we will need
to be flexible. The best way to fight off rigidity is by continually
stretching yourself by taking on new challenges. I also recommend
learning how to overcome irrational fears of change, boosting self-confidence,
becoming proactive and involved during change processes, setting new goals
and anticipating change.
Recommended Reading
Ellis, A. & Harper,
R. A. (1975). A new guide to rational living.
N. Hollywood, CA: Wilshire Book Co.
Manz, C. C., & Neck,
C. P. (1999). Mastering self-leadership: Empowering yourself
for personal excellence, (2nd ed.). Upper Saddle River, NJ: Prentice
Hall.
Seligman, M. E. P.
(1991). Learned optimism. New York: Knopf.
Additional Source
Johnson, S. (1998).
Who moved my cheese?: An a-mazing way to deal with change in your work
and in your life. New York: Putnam.
About the Photo
South American champion
Paraguay's Olimpia captain Julio Cesar Enciso (R) stretches as Miguel Angel
Benetiez (L) assists during a practice session for the World Club Championships
final at Yokohama International Stadium December 2, 2002. European champion
Real Madrid and South American champion Olimpia will face off in the champions
final on Tuesday. (REUTERS/Kimimasa Mayama: E-mailed to me
from Yahoo! News, www.news.yahoo.com).
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A Good, Clean Joke
Tony comes up to the Mexican
border on his bicycle. He's got two large bags over his shoulders. Joe,
the border guard, stops him and says, "What's in the bags?"
"Sand," answers Tony.
Joe says, "We'll just see
about that. Get off the bike." Joe takes the bags and rips them apart;
he empties them out and finds nothing in them but sand. He detains Tony
overnight and has the sand analyzed, only to discover that there is nothing
but pure sand in the bags.
Joe releases Tony, puts
the sand into new bags, hefts them onto the man's shoulders, and lets him
cross the border.
The next day, the same thing
happens. Joe asks, "What have you got?"
"Sand," says Tony.
Joe does his thorough examination
and discovers that the bags contain nothing but sand. He gives the sand
back to Tony, and Tony crosses the border on his bicycle.
This sequence of events
is repeated every day for three years. Then Joe runs across Tony one day
in a cantina in Mexico.
"Hey, buddy," says Joe,
"I know you are smuggling something. It's driving me crazy. It's all I
think about ... I can't sleep. Just between you and me, what are you smuggling?"
Tony sips his beer and says,
"Bicycles."